I think NYC can definitely be a place for romance. It’s just more of a challenge to find these days.
Today’s world of Grindr, online dating, and facebook makes it so easy to “hook up” with people, that it makes it harder to find the people with substance. The good guys get jaded easily and then “don’t date” because they are afraid of what they will find.
The romance is out there, believe me.
And think of how much more satisfying it will be once you actually find it.
Whatever doesn’t kill us makes us stronger right?
That’s why NYC boys are the toughest. :D